Soft vs Medium vs Super Soft: Understanding Dildo Firmness

When shopping for a fantasy dildo, you'll often see terms like 'soft', 'medium', and 'super soft' used to describe the silicone. But what do these labels actually mean, and how do they affect your experience? Understanding dildo firmness is key to finding a toy that feels right for your body and your play style.

In this guide, we'll break down the differences between soft, medium, and super soft silicone, explain the Shore hardness scale (including OO20 vs OO30), and help you decide which firmness is best for you. Whether you're new to fantasy toys or looking to expand your collection, knowing what to expect from each firmness will make your choice easier.

What Does Dildo Firmness Mean?

Firmness refers to how hard or soft a silicone toy feels when you squeeze it. It's determined by the Shore hardness scale, which measures the material's resistance to indentation. For adult toys, manufacturers typically use the 'OO' scale, which covers very soft materials. A lower number means softer silicone, so a toy rated OO20 is softer than one rated OO30.

At Tentickle, we use these ratings to help you choose. For example, our 'Burgore 'Trophy' #1 squishy stimtoy super soft (OO20)' is extremely pliable, while our 'Nemonee 'Trick Or Treat' #2 soft (OO30) GITD' offers a bit more structure. Understanding these numbers helps you predict how a toy will feel during use.

• Shore hardness OO20: very soft, squishy, and flexible.
• Shore hardness OO30: soft but slightly firmer, retaining more shape.
• Lower numbers = softer silicone; higher numbers = firmer.

Soft vs Medium vs Super Soft: Key Differences

Super soft dildos (around OO20) are extremely pliable and often feel almost jelly-like. They bend easily, compress significantly, and are great for people who prefer a gentle, yielding sensation. Because they're so soft, they can be more comfortable for longer sessions, but they may not provide the intense pressure some users seek.

Medium firmness (around OO30) strikes a balance between softness and structure. These toys have a bit more resistance, so they hold their shape better and can provide more targeted stimulation. They're versatile, making them a popular choice for both beginners and experienced users. Many of our models, like 'Frankie' and 'Woodsman', are available in this range.

• Super soft: ideal for those who want maximum squish and gentle play.
• Medium: offers a balance of comfort and stimulation, suitable for most users.
• Firm: provides intense pressure and is better for advanced users (though we focus on soft to medium).

How to Choose the Right Firmness for You

Your choice of firmness depends on your personal preferences and how you plan to use the toy. If you're new to fantasy dildos, a medium firmness is often a safe starting point because it's not too overwhelming. It can help you get used to the sensation without being too rigid or too floppy.

If you enjoy texture and pressure, a firmer toy might be better. However, if you prefer a more gentle, filling experience, a super soft dildo like the 'Burgore 'Trophy' #1' could be perfect. Remember that softer toys are also easier to insert and can be more comfortable for those with sensitivity issues.

• Consider your experience level: beginners may prefer medium firmness.
• Think about the type of stimulation you enjoy: pressure vs gentle filling.
• Softer toys are more forgiving and easier to maneuver.
• If you use a harness or strap, a firmer toy might be easier to control.

Practical Tips for Testing Firmness

If you're unsure which firmness you'll like, try to feel toys in person if possible. Many shops allow you to handle display models. Alternatively, read reviews and watch videos that show the toy being squeezed and bent. This can give you a better sense of its squishiness.

At Tentickle, we provide detailed descriptions and often include the Shore hardness rating. For example, our 'Tendriss' and 'Greb' models are available in different firmnesses, so you can compare. Remember that softer toys require more careful handling and storage to maintain their shape.

• Check the Shore hardness rating (e.g., OO20, OO30) when available.
• Look for videos or reviews that demonstrate the toy's flexibility.
• Store soft toys flat to avoid deformation.

Understanding dildo firmness is essential for finding a toy that feels great. Whether you choose a super soft squishy stimtoy or a medium-firm dildo, remember that personal preference plays a huge role. Don't be afraid to experiment with different firmnesses to discover what works best for you. And if you have questions, our team is always happy to help you choose the perfect toy.